Saturday, November 20, 2010

Curse of the Pretty Girl

You know what grinds my ears...when I hear someone say "She's so pretty why does she put up with him" or "She's so pretty why would he cheat on her" or my favorite "She's so pretty why is she still single"...in the year 2010 going into 2011 being pretty is not criteria enough to get or keep a man worth having. As the old men say "Show me a pretty woman and I'll show you a man that's tired of fucking her." True Story. There are many beautiful people in the world but being beautiful is only 1/2 the battle. Do you have a pleasant/interesting personality? Are you loyal and honest? Are you self sufficient and trustworthy? Can you hold your own in a crowd full of men and women? Are you down to earth and easy to talk to? Bitch do you cook? Can you clean? Are you extremely superficial and shallow? I'm being hard on the ladies in this note because I don't want any of you thinking that just because you are "pretty" by society's standards or even your own  standards, that quality alone qualifies you as being a good woman. Good sex will not even do the trick. It will keep a man f---cking you but even that gets old. All I'm saying is quit thinking you have some kind of advantage because you are cute if you have nothing else to bring to the table....if you have a dry sense of humor, don't have an inviting personality or you are shallow as hell please SAT DOWN SOMEWHERE!!! Some pretty girls are full of all the drama...trust me I had that issue where all I wanted to do was fight and be dramatic all the time with people I dated and while I'm sure they cared for me that shit got old for them. And eventually for me too. And if you are past the age of 25 and the number one thing you want from a man is that he is "cute" then grow up. I'm not saying you should date someone you arent attracted to I'm just saying that there are other traits that are more important like I don't know...respect? Loyalty? that he is a good provider? That he loves you? Hell that he actually likes you! All I'm saying is don't sell your self short by having the mind frame that a pretty face is all you have to offer...because I would hope that if I FUX with you that you go much deeper than that.